Text messaging and calling have forced us to connect in a very similar matter to the rest of the world and denies us the ability to express ourselves like within a letter or while verbally communicating with someone face to face. But this should not come as a great surprise, as the more heavily reliant on technology we become the more we become disconnected with society and those around us whom we share our lives with claims Goldberger. We now spend more time on our little pieces of plastic then we ever have in the past and in many cases more time then with actual people. This new age based around the rise of apps and Internet capabilities, what's the point of waiting weeks for a letter or having an actually face to face conversation when you can just Facebook chat? These little devices have slowly made their way to become the focal point of both our personal lives and our daily careers; without a cell phone to constantly update some people's lifes with e-mails, texts, and notifications they won't be able to function. They couldn't even read a newspaper without a phone in many cases as the digital revolution is destroying the paperback industry.


This brings us to the most recent cover art I have selected to express this conflict in socialization and technology. This cover from 2007 shows a small child holding a cell phone while taking a picture of his parents in their bed. Apart from the fact that this not only deeply disturbing, that a child would take a picture of this kind of intimate behavior of his parents, but it is interesting to me that this child can operate a phone so well while being so young. In this little boy's childhood, it is not only normal but expected for most of your socialization to take place online in this new generation of Aim, texting, and Facebook. In my family, we have almost always set aside dinner as our "family time" where we could diccuss our days events and share news with one another. It was a great time to talk, tell stories, and make jokes, all true merits of socialization and key aspects that a child must learn growing up. But now, we have replaced this critical lesson with people texting and making phone calls with others possibly hundreds of miles away instead of talking with one another right in front of you. Lessons like this are already being taught to children at such a young age and by their family none the less; how will these future adults be able to grow up without a phone in their hands texting away? Truly in a society like this, even childhood individuality is a memory of the past.
Each person's own life experiences are what make us who we are and none of us are exactly alike. Our opinions, personality, and childhood are the defining traits that shape the mold of our future selves, but these traits are being thrown aside by the new defining factor in our lifes. Today's more modern smart phones may have been around for only a couple of years, but the impact they have left on our society has been mind-blowing and frightening; they have become the new central tool for most of our generations social interaction and left a gaping void where human contact should be taking place. Goldberger was right in the sense that the cell phone is disconnecting from each other, just as the New Yorker has warned us of how each new gadget throughout history has been slowly destroying the next generation's sense of personal expression. As Goldberger quoted: "...the phone they are the same. Every place is exactly the same as every other place. They are all just nodes on a network—and so, increasingly, are we."